Can you think of anything better to do on a Saturday then play on your mac wrapped in a gator blanket watching ESPN... GO GATORS!
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Are you Ready for some GATOR FOOTBALL???
Can you think of anything better to do on a Saturday then play on your mac wrapped in a gator blanket watching ESPN... GO GATORS!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
39 weeks 2 days
Noah and I are getting so anxious to meet Alethia Grace. Every night Noah talks to her and tells her all kinds of things but recently it has been "all babies want to get borned" a Juno shout out to any fans out there. He tells her how much better life will be outside than inside and how he can't wait to play with her. So Allie belle... come on girl :)
Friday, September 18, 2009
I made my first hairbow :)
38.5 Week Update
Anyways. Still no progress. Dr. P had said he wanted to induce me the week of the 28th but I told him I wasn't comfortable with that decision. I have a hard time forcing my body into labor right around my due date. I think we can wait it out a little longer. He said that he doesn't want me to go more than a week late so we agreed that we would consider inducing the week of the 5th if she doesn't come on her own before then. I just want to give this girl the time she needs to come when she wants to. Don't get me wrong... I am READY to have this baby. There was a part of me going ok lets get her out on the 28th but deep down I wasn't comfortable with that decision and I think giving her a week past my due date will help her progress the way she needs to. So I am still walking and trying everything I know to do to keep things progressing and earnestly praying that I don't have to wait until the week of the 5th to have a baby. Come on Allie belle we are SO ready to meet you!
Sunday, September 13, 2009
37.5 Week Update
Thursday, September 3, 2009
36 Week Update
I am also now taking suggestions to help "prepare" my body to be ready for labor. Anything that can help in these next 4 weeks I am willing to try...
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Today is D Day
Tonight at 6pm August Gate Church launches in Soulard. I am so excited for this night but I am even more proud of my husband. I have watched God transform him into an amazing preacher, leader, teacher, and pastor. I have seen the awesome man of God he is first hand and I am utterly amazed. Noah I am so proud of you. I am proud to call you my husband, my pastor, my lover, and my best friend. May you never loose sight of the call that the Lord has placed on our lives. I couldn't be more excited to be walking this path with you. May God be glorified in it all! Now lets go transform this city with the gospel.
Friday, August 28, 2009
35 Week Update
At our appointment it was pretty routine. Another NST..totally normal and everything else looks great. He said baby is "in position" but there is no progress towards dilation at this point. I had been assuming that she had dropped a little bit as I am feeling some intense pressure in my pelvic bones and when I squat I feel like she might fall out. Sorry if that is TMI :) So all in all a good day and we will visit Dr. P next Thursday for our next appointment...
Monday, August 24, 2009
34 Week update and I am so behind
In other news, I have pics from Florida and my Sheridan Hills shower that I will try to post either later this evening or tomorrow. I am really trying to get caught up...bear with me :)
Thursday, August 13, 2009
33 Week Update and Happy Birthday Betsy!
Also, I want to say Happy Birthday to my amazing sister in law- Betsy. Check out her blog at nateandbetsyoldham.blogspot.com. I am so thankful to have such an awesome sister in law. I love you girl and hope that you have an AMAZING day with your family.
Friday, August 7, 2009
32 Week Update
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Allie's Room Updated
My mom actually made the curtains to match the crib bedding as well as the other bed. They are SO cute.
Not only did we organize the nursery and the bathroom we also made a blanket, a dress, and 2 skirts for Allie belle. I don't have pics of the dress yet (I forgot to take one and I am now in FL) but I will post pics of the other stuff when I get home.
Saturday, August 1, 2009
Showers and More
I also had a shower that my mom's side of my family threw for me here in the St Louis area. Thank you Aunt Janet, Katie, and Andrea for all of your hard work! This shower was more intimate but equally as fun. Some how I let the entire day get away from me without taking any pictures of anything! Not sure what I was thinking. As most of you already know my mom's side of the family gave me my beautiful crib so I can't wait to post pictures of the completed room. Soon and very soon!
Thank you to all for showering Allie and me. I appreciate your love and support. Now it is time to meet this little girl :) only 8 weeks to go.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Happy Birthday Mom
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Friday, July 17, 2009
The beginning of Pregnancy Pics...
Yesterday KellyBeth met us at our place to take Pregnancy Pics or "Belly Pics" as I had been calling them. I have posted a few that she sent to me to preview. There are SEVERAL more that I will get later and post when I get them but thought you all might enjoy a sneak peak.


She also took some pics for Noah to put together a bio to send to churches that he speaks at. He informed me that morning that he was a frowning pastor or a serious pastor. Basically he meant he didn't want to be smiling in his bio pic. However, I think KB captured Noah perfect in this picture. I love your smile baby :)Also...funny story. The night before I was trying to figure out what I was going to wear... not that I have many options. I had said something to Noah about trying to figure out what we would wear and he quickly replies "Does it really matter... your shirt is going to be up the whole time it is not like anyone will see what you are wearing". I had a good laugh. I guess that is what I get for calling them Belly pics. There were no bare belly pics... sorry.
Monday, July 13, 2009
29 week update and a crazy weekend
Saturday we went to Belleville for Ryan Neal and Emily Goldman's wedding. I had never been to a Catholic wedding before and it was quite the experience. The Cathederal was beautiful. We stayed for the reception so we didn't get home till later than we originally planned. Congratulations Ryan and Emily... We are so glad we got to be a part of your special day!!
The next morning came early as we had to leave the house by 9 to drive to Litchfield for a 10am service at FBC Litchfield. This was Josh's last sunday there and they were doing a commissioning service for them and for August Gate. They are planning to be on of our supporting churches. After that we all stayed as they had lunch provided for us and then went to Josh's Ordination service at 3pm. As you can probably guess I was totally exhausted at this point. Noah gave the charge at the ordination service and did an amazing job as always :) However, this time I noticed something different. From the time Noah started speaking till the time he was done Allie did not stop moving. I am not exaggerating. These were not small movements it was like she was doing somersaults are something. So apparently Allie Belle likes to hear her daddy preach... she better... she is going to hear a lot of it in her life time.
After the service we made the hour drive home and everyone came over to our house to grill out and have a big celebration meal. We had a blast with the group just being together, sharing stories, experiences, and laughs. Everyone left by 9pm and Noah and I crashed.
The weekend wore me out, but that is why I am thankful for Mondays where I can just rest. Thank you Jesus!
Saturday, July 11, 2009
The joys of living alone...
While Noah was being the master chef on the grill I made chocolate covered strawberries for dessert (i got the strawberries at the farmer's market earlier that day). AMAZING.
Baby I am enjoying living with just you, at least for 11 more weeks :) I love you!
Friday, July 10, 2009
Blast from the Past
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Living in the City and Allie's Room Part 2
This weekend Brie came over to help start making Allie's room adorable. Here is the beginning works of what will be her room. I am so excited with how it is turning out. Now I can't wait for my mom to get here with the bedding and finish the rest of the decor. Thanks Brie! You truly are gifted.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Allie's Room
Monday, June 15, 2009
This past weekend...

Friday we had a doctors appointment. Everything is still looking great. Dr. Pignotti is always SO enthusiastic about how great both Allie and I are doing. When he went to check her heart beat he had some trouble finding it. At first this totally scared me but he quickly re-assured me that the reason he was having trouble is because she wouldn't stop moving. He said he would get it and then it would be faint. So apparently we have one active little female on our hands...oh boy!
Later that day we set out to paint our condo. Noah was not excited about painting but since he is an amazing husband and knew I needed paint to help make this place home he painted. Not only did he help me but he did most of it himself, as I wasn't much help taking frequent long breaks to get out of the fume infested room. I forgot to take a pic this weekend but I am SO happy how it turned out. Will post a pic soon.
On Saturday we got to meet an amazing couple who just moved to the area. Our meeting was totally a God thing. He (Matt) just finished Seminary in New Orleans and is moving here to get a second masters from UMSL in Philosophy. They know absolutly no one in St Louis and through a mutual aquaintance and the power of facebook we were able to hook up and help them get in to their new place. We also had dinner with them that night. I look forward to God's plans for us in the future. I think this may have been the start of an amazing friendship. Welcome to STL Flummers!
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
June Update
Yep, that’s right. The Oldham’s are once again in the midst
of a move. This will be the fourth time in less than four
years! Our moves have ranged from everything from the
unknown, to despair, to hope. But I would have to say that
this is the greatest move I have ever been a part of. This
move means more than a change in location. It means more
than a new job, a new place to live, and new neighbors to
meet. This move is all about the Gospel.
More than ever before, the vision that God has given us is
clear. We know exactly what God is calling us to do and that
is precisely why we are moving. See, there is this principle
in missions that is well understood by foreign missionaries.
It is called indigenous church planting. It means that people
that live in and are a part of a community have a much
greater possibility of reaching that community that those
who are considered “outsiders.”
If we truly want to reach the city of St. Louis with the
Gospel, we have to be a part of the city of St. Louis. We
have to live there, eat there, shop there, and have
community there. Pray for us as we make this transition.
And pray for our furniture as it is going to need divine
intervention to be usable after this many moves!
Allie Grace in on her way!
There are a few rare moments in life that steal your breath away and leave you in awe at the majesty and mystery of God. I had one of those moments a few weeks ago. As we were lying in bed about to go to sleep, Heather placed my hand on her belly and within a few moments I felt Allie kick! You hear about this happening, you see it on movies and ABC afterschool specials; it is one of those “facts of life” that just happen. But in that moment, I felt as though my heart stopped. I was literally speechless because I had no language to describe the wonder that I was feeling. All I could do was laugh. None of us really knows what is going on in the minds of babies in the womb.
Scripture tells us that John leapt in his mother’s womb when Mary came near Elizabeth. What’s up with that? Every night, whether I place my hand on Heather’s belly or not, I pray for our little girl. I ask God to watch over His handiwork. I also ask Jesus to call Allie at a young age, to allow her to be a young woman that fears the Lord and loves and lives the Gospel. I’m going to be a first-time father. And I know that I have so much to learn...but one thing I know for sure...Allie Grace Oldham is on her way...you better get ready world!
Preview Service
On May 31st we hosted the first preview service of August
Gate. What is a preview service you might ask? It is an
opportunity for people to get a feel for what weekly worship
will look like at August Gate. Every church is distinct in
style, methodology and community. Our preview services
are a chance for those we meet and share the vision with to
come see what we are talking about.
It is also an opportunity for us to work out the kinks in what
we are doing. For some on our launch team, working with a
church plant is a brand new idea. Serving in a church plant
is much different than serving at an existing church. I was
incredibly encouraged to see our whole crew stepping up to
help set up, tear down, welcome people and participate in
worship.
We had about 60 people attend. A few were family who
came from Illinois to support us (thanks!). Several were our
launch team. But we had a few people that we had either
met once or had just connected with through the internet or
on the street who came to check things out.
If you would like to check out the audio for the preview
service or any of our launch team meetings...just go to
http://www.augustgate.com/.
Prayer...
There are several things that you can be praying about.
1. Location
2. Walk-a-thon
3. Fund-raising
4. Networking
Many of you have been praying for a few months about our
location situation. We were graciously given the opportunity to use a building that is owned by another church for our preview service. We have been praying for a long while and are still
praying about our relationship with this specific church. At this time, things do not look possible for us to partner with them under their terms and still be able to fulfill the vision God has
given for August Gate as a new church plant reaching the city of St. Louis.
But God has not left us without options. We have met with the
local Lutheran church and we will find out this week if they will
allow us to rent the use of their fellowship hall on a weekly
basis. Things look very good so please help us pray it through.
Over the next few months, we have three goals as a launch
team. First, we need to grow together as a more cohesive unit
and in number. Next, we want to let as many people in our
area of St. Louis know about the mission and vision of August
Gate. Thirdly, we want to build a good name in our
communities. Due to the creativity of a couple people on our
launch team we are planning a Walk-a-thon for September
12th to be held in Soulard to help accomplish all of these
goals. The event will raise money for both August Gate as well
as the Children’s Miracle Network who gives funds to both of
the children’s hospitals in St. Louis. Please pray for this event
and for Heather as she will be one of the two people spearheading
the operation.
Please be in prayer about our fund-raising efforts. We still
have several needs that need to be met. Check out the fundraising
section for more details.
Finally, a huge area for needed prayer is that of networking.
Those of you who have been involved in church leadership
know the struggle that church politics can be. Our prayer is
this: that God would lead us to the group or groups that will
help us in the areas of financial support, emotional support,
vision, mission, and resources. I have so many conversations
and meetings set up over this issue that I am getting dizzy.
Pray for focus, clarity, and divine guidance as we seek to
make partnerships with churches, networks, and associations
that God would have us join with.
Fund Raising...
As always, we want to start off by saying a big “thank
you” to all of you who have decided to give to August
Gate these next twelve months. God is using you to
take the Gospel to the city of St. Louis.
Several people have asked how they can help in
specific ways. Below is a list of specific items that we
will need in the next few months prior to our launch.
- Projector
- Serial Cable (150 ft)
- Rear Projection Screen and frame
- Cables for sound system
- Sound board and snake
- Carpets for stage area
- Carpets for children’s area
- Stands for speakers and backdrop
- Pipe and drape for backdrop
- Sheets for décor and connection table
- Lights
- Black extension cords
- Signage
- Promotional material
- Bibles
Because we will be renting space and will not have
our own building for storage we may also need the
following.
- Storage trailer
- Wheeled travel cases for equipment
We know this is a huge list and many of the items
are big items. Believe me, we know! An option is if
you or the churches you attend have any of these
items in good condition that they would be willing to
give away or sell at a discounted price.
If you aren’t an itemized person, good old fashioned
monthly support is still very welcomed.
All your gifts will be tax deductible. As God leads and
you decide to give please let us know by emailing
noah@augustgate.com.
Sunday, June 7, 2009
HK and Uncle Noah
Here is Zacchaeus in the sycamore tree.
Noah asked HK if she knew how to climb the mokey bars and she said "no. Im sorry". This is her favorite phrase these days. If you ask her to do something and she doesn't want to do it she quickly responds with no...im sorry. It is actually really funny. When Noah asked her if he could teach her she seemed intrigued. So here she is learning to climb the monkey bars. Hopefully she wont try to climb them without help anytime soon.
The real reason HK wanted to go to the swingset to play was to swing. She loved running into the swing and swinging on her tummy. Here is Uncle Noah pushing HK on the swing.
HK loves her bubba. Anytime I am loving on him she feels the need to come over and get in on the action. I was able to snap a quick picture while they were both looking at me, right before Nolan got frustrated because she was loving him a little too tight.
After Dinner HK and Uncle Noah played outside for a while:
Later that evening HK asked Uncle Noah to dance with her. Here is the infamous Paso Doble Face
Uncle Noah and HK finishing up a long evening watching all the Veggie Tales Silly Songs while Betsy and I prepare food for her party. I think they were both pretty tired after playing so hard.
Friday, June 5, 2009
4 Years!
Our first Preview Service
May 31st was our first preview service for August Gate. Things went extremely well. We met at the Jesus Church in Soulard at 11am and we had about 60 people in attendance. You can check out Noah's teaching on the link in the upper right hand corner. Thanks to Kelly Beth I have a couple of pictures from the event (my camera battery died literally the second I turned it on). I was trying to post them tonight but apparently I am on an extremely slow internet connection so I will update once we get back to St. Louis. We are currently at Noah's dads house in Eldorado ready to celebrate my neice Hallie Kate's 3rd Birthday tomorrow.
We are also in the process of moving from St Charles to our new condo in Lafayette Square. We were able to stay down there earlier in the week. Even on an air mattress I wanted to be there more than our house in St Charles. Noah and I are both ready to make this move and be in the city full time. Continue to be praying for this move to be easy and smooth. I am so anxious to be down there but am trying so hard to finish strong and finish well where God has placed us in the mean time.
Check out a few pictures from today thanks to KBK photography!
Noah and me at 23 weeks.


HK didn't want her picture taken by KB but she got one of her smiling anyway!
Monday, June 1, 2009
The Zoo
Quick into the trip HK conned Uncle Noah to let her ride on his shoulders. Here she is looking at the elephants in amazement.
After Noah couldn't take her on his shoulders anymore he decided to take a stab at pushing the stroller. Better get in some good practice Uncle Noah September will be here before you know it.
HK and the penguins. She was very excited to see the penguins.

Riding the carousel. When HK saw the carousel she wanted to ride. She wanted to get on it right away. Waiting in line was a bit of a foreign concept.





Who knew the zoo was such a fun place to go. We are so lucky to have a free zoo here in STL. The day was beautiful and we all had a blast.
